Life Stories
Some of the stories shown here are told from the point of view of those living with the effects of a brain injury. Other stories are told by the family, friends and loved ones.
Paul & Liz
Liz cares for her husband Paul full time after he had an operation for an aneurysm. She recently attended her first Lady Carers Weekend.
Paul had an undiagnosed and unstable aneurysm which was leaking. It was in a difficult place for the operation and he suffered hydrocephalus which probably cause most of his disabilities.
I was initially worried about attending my first Lady Carers Weekend. I had my own room which made me feel comfortable and relaxed while I was away. I also laughed a lot. I realised that I hadn’t felt like that in a long time.
I will come to the next one and I am glad you all at The BIG Group supported me in taking that first step.
I was worried about coming on the weekend. You were all very kind and it meant a lot…
Karen & Ian
Karen has been diagnosed with brain damage after an operation on her sinuses and suffering from a rare form of meningitis. Since learning about the BIG Group both Karen and Ian have enjoyed coming to the BIG events boosting confidence in socialising.
Karen’s heath deteriorated after a sinus operation 10 years ago. She was diagnosed after 2 years of assessments and scans as having brain damage. It was as a result of a rare form of meningitis probably caused by or related to her sinus operation and a subsequent infection.
As a family we were very isolated and not made aware of any supports. We decided to make family arrangements to ensure that Karen got the care she required. I arranged with my work to take on a 4 day on/4 day off rota. Both our daughters also arranged their working hours to ensure that care was always available for Karen. Karen’s physical health improved but her care requirements and her lack of confidence to go out and meet people meant that there were severe restrictions on family life and continuing isolation.
I first heard about BIG group when attending the Head Injury Information Day in 2015. We are now regular attendees at BIG events and both Karen and I thoroughly enjoy them. We are comfortable in the company of others who have had similar experiences able to talk, laugh and share. Karen’s confidence has been hugely boosted.
I am now a BIG committee member. Learning about and getting involved with BIG Group has been like a door opening. I wish I had known about BIG Group years ago!
Getting involved with the BIG Group has been like a door opening.
Alan
Alan suffered a subarachnoid hemorrhage in November 2005 while working 1000 miles north of Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. He was flown to hospital in Edmonton where he was in a coma for over 5 weeks. On discharge from hospital Alan returned to Fort Nelson but resources were very limited and there were no specific Brain Injury services to allow any substantial rehabilitation. In May 2007 Alan’s brother Ian had to go to Canada to repatriate him after reports of a lack of care and mismanagement of his finances.
On return to the UK Alan attended Momentum where the Pathways program was a great help in kick starting his delayed rehabilitation. Alan along with this brother Ian became actively involved. Now over 10 years on from his Acquired Brain Injury Alan is living in his own flat, with support. Routine is very important in allowing Allan to live as independently as he can. He is very accepting of new placements for each day of the working week.
Always smiling Alan attends almost all of the BIG Group events. Despite the challenges that life has presented him with Alan has a very positive outlook on life.
Brother Ian is an ex convenor of BIG Group and remains as an active member on the committee today.
Despite the challenges that life has presented him with Alan has a very positive outlook on life.
Facts and Statistics
( Last update based on 2019-20 stats) -
- Every 90 seconds someone in the UK is admitted to hospital with a head injury.
- In the last year 21,295 people in Scotland were admitted to hospital with a head injury.
- Men are more 1.5x more likely than females to be admitted for a head injury.
- In recent years the number of women admitted to hospital with a head injury has increased, as much as 28% in 2019-20 since 2005-6.
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